I added this page for a couple of women I have heard from asking about my pre-surgery body. Truth be told, I wasn’t in the habit of taking semi-nude photos of myself in the years before my surgery. I think this is as close as we’re going to get to seeing the general shape/size of my pre-baby, pre-surgery boobs when they were still something to see and not avert your eyes from.
I gave birth to our twins in January 2010.
I found out that I am BRCA1 positive in March or April 2010, not long after my sister Alyssa’s breast cancer diagnosis. At that time, I was still nursing our twins and wanted to continue nursing. When I quit breastfeeding our girls, I decided to go to Seattle Cancer Care Alliance for biannual screenings until I reached a conclusion about the prophylactic bilateral mastectomy and what reconstruction, if any, I would do.
I met with Dr. Otway Louie for the reconstruction consult on September 19, 2011. I think, but am not sure, that is when Dr. Louie took these first 5 photos (below). I assume they were taken last year because the tattoo I now have on my right forearm is missing from the photos. The next two photos (of just my abdomen) were shot two months before my bilateral mastectomy and DIEP flap reconstruction.
As I’ve previously stated in my blog, I had a lot of stretched, sagging skin from my pregnancy that I was glad to be rid of thanks to my DIEP flap reconstruction. I also wasn’t 100% sad about losing my natural breasts since nursing twins truly sucked the life out of them. What were once perky, full, attractive boobs later became flat, asymmetrical, sagging, and probably precancerous liabilities, complete with wonky nipples.
From September 2011 to March 2012, I worked my ass (and various other parts) off at the gym to lose the last of my pregnancy weight. I probably lost 15 lbs of fat and replaced it with muscle. I was so anxious about the potential of having an adverse reaction to the anesthesia and the duration of my surgeries that I wanted to be a lean, mean, healthy heart machine before I went into surgery. And I was. But I still had saggy, uneven breasts and enough spare skin to satisfy a couple of burn units. So, this is what I went into surgery looking like. I have to say, the potential for my “final product” after my reconstruction stages are complete is looking pretty great.
Hi,
You are such a brave, beautiful and genuine inspiration! You have infected me with your courage and I have peace. I will begin this whole process in September 2013 I have put off this process for 7 years post my prophylactic oophorectomy being BRCA. Did I mention what a great job was done? You look fantasteeeek! Thank you! Your blog is awesome!
Warm regards,
Barbara
Thanks, Barbara! For me, it seems like the decision to have the prophylactic oophorectomy is the harder decision to make!!! After witnessing my sister go through surgical onset menopause after hers, I’m so scared about having my oophorectomy!
Good luck with your surgery and let me know if you have any questions!
Shera
I found your blog on a Facebook group dedicated to DIEP flap. When I found it I was in the waiting period for my skin sparing bilateral mastectomy. This was the best information I have read about this procedure. A surgeon can tell you what to expect but it’s so different to hear it from someone who has actually done it. I applaud you for your bravery in posting pictures and telling a real story. Thank you!
Gina,
Thanks so much for reaching out! When is your surgery (or did you already have it)? I’m SO glad there is DIEP Flap FB page! Can you send me the information for it? I’d LOVE to join!
I hope you’re doing well, and let me know if there is anything I’ve left unanswered for you!
I stumbled on your blog while googling white ink tattoos. Your reconstruction pics show better looking breasts than most women have naturally, and I honestly think they are an improvement on the ones you had before, my wife agrees and she is looking into getting tested. Way to survive Sexy! You look great.
I randomly ended here on your blog and looked around for a bit.
I have to tell you how beautiful your new breasts look, even without the nipple-tattoo.
I can’t imagine how tough your journey must have been and i admire you for being able to share it with strangers.
I hope you get the gorgeous boobs you deserve, and stay healthy in the future.
Lots of love from Denmark.
Sandra! For some reason I didn’t receive a notification of your (now, 6 month old) comment. Thank you for stumbling upon my blog. My Noobs are great and hanging in there? 😉
Hope all is well in Denmark; love back to you from this side of the pond.